Welcome to Janus

SOJ is a not-for-profit, all volunteer, San Francisco-based education and support organization devoted to the art of safe, consensual and non-exploitative BDSM.

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Bend over, boardroom!

From the April 3, 2013 edition of the San Francisco Bay Guardian:

CAREERS AND ED: Bend over, boardroom
Beatrice Stonebanks wants to teach you how to be a corporate dominatrix

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All too often in the workplace, women fight to hide their sexuality. In Facebook chief operating officer Sheryl Sandberg's Lean In, the controversial feminist-treatise-of-the-moment on combating sexism in the corporate world, Sandberg references a tech worker who goes so far as to remove her earrings before coming to work, so fervently does the employee wish to minimize her gender lest it distract her male cohorts.

Beatrice Stonebanks takes a different tack. A sales consultant for 25 years now, and a member of the San Francisco BDSM scene for 16, she strode into a partners' meeting at her job in 2010 and wrote two words on the dry erase board for all to see. They were: corporate dominatrix.

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Spring Newbie Social - April 8 -- That's Next Week!

Spring is in the air, the dark Winter has passed and it’s time to expand horizons and cultivate gardens. That applies equally well to cultivating one’s mind and spirit as it does to growing plants. Now’s the time for you to let yourself go to those places you’ve dreamed about only in your most private thoughts. Believe it or not, you are not the first or only person to ever want to explore your kinky side, to have kinky thoughts and desires, to want to pin someone to the wall as you press against her, to make him kneel and caress your thigh.

But how to start?

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Janus Pre-Class Supper Social - April 3, 6:30 to before the program

Hey all kinksters,

Before the kick-ass April 3 Janus program by Richard Sprott, we're going to have our second Janus Supper Social of the year. Come for the class, have dinner for free.

Meet, eat, schmooze, socialize.....get to know your kinky community members at our Pre-Class Social Mixer. It starts at approximately 6:30pm and runs to just before the program that starts at 8.

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The Psychobiology of SM: Mind-Body Connections in SM Activities - Wed. Apr. 3 - 8-10pm with Richard Sprott


Location: Women's Building
3543 18th Street, San Francisco
$5 Janus members and reciprocal orgs, $20 all others
Dress code: Whatever makes you feel good

About the program:
This presentation covers the latest research in neuroscience, psychoneuroimmunology, personality factors such as sensation-seeking, and the endocrine system and how these latest findings might apply to BDSM.

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Pre-Class Dinner SOCIAL MIXER Wed. March 20 7-8pm

We have listened to our members requests for more opportunities to build community.

Meet, EAT, Socialize.....get to know more community members at our Pre-Class Social Mixer next Wed. March 20th 7-8pm BEFORE the Corporate Dominatrix Training begins. We'll be supplying dinner and sweets -- you supply the friendly interaction.

Doors open at 7pm.

Corporate Dominatrix Training 101: How to Use Sex and Power to Increase Sales, Wednesday, March 20, 2013 · 8:00–10:00 PM

Pink is the new power
Wednesday, March 20, 2013 · 8:00 PM–10:00 PM
The Women's Building (Audre Lorde Room)
3543 18th Street, #8 San Francisco
$5 Janus members and reciprocal orgs, $20 all others.
Dress code: Whatever makes you feel good

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Society of Janus Orientation ~ Wednesday March 13th 7:00-9:00 PM

An Orientation meeting is a fun, low-key, non-threatening forum where prospective members to the Society of Janus are presented with the rules and guidelines of the organization, and introduced to current members and to each other. Current members are always welcome and encouraged to attend.

Location: the Castro Community Room, which is located inside the Bank of America building at 501 Castro Street (at the corner of Castro and 18th) in San Francisco. Enter through the glass doors next to the bank of teller machines and follow the signs up the stairs.

Please arrive on time as we try to start promptly; you may not be able to attend if you arrive more than 10 or so minutes late.

Additional information about the orientation and how to join the Society of Janus is available at: http://www.soj.org/joining

If you want to attend an orientation, it's helpful if you RSVP by e-mail to orientation@soj.org. There is a $5 orientation fee (for non-members) to help pay for the room rental.

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February 2013 Growing Pains

Society of Janus Orientation ~ Saturday February 16th 4:00-6:00 PM

An Orientation meeting is a fun, low-key, non-threatening forum where prospective members to the Society of Janus are presented with the rules and guidelines of the organization, and introduced to current members and to each other. Current members are always welcome and encouraged to attend.

Location: the Castro Community Room, which is located inside the Bank of America building at 501 Castro Street (at the corner of Castro and 18th) in San Francisco. Enter through the glass doors next to the bank of teller machines and follow the signs up the stairs.

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