Welcome to Janus

SOJ is a not-for-profit, all volunteer, San Francisco-based education and support organization devoted to the art of safe, consensual and non-exploitative BDSM.

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Pervert Eager Minds - Mentoring May 2010

Posted Sun, 04/25/2010 - 18:56 by mentoring

Be a Mentor!
You can support the next generation of kinksters.

The SOJ is looking for Mentors of all genders, orientations, roles and depravities for new Janus Members! Mentors of all experience levels and technical abilities are encouraged to join our dynamic Mentoring Program. You may have only a few years experience or you may be an expert in your chosen field of kink; you can shape the next generation!

* Giving just a little bit of your time to a Newbie kinkster (even over the phone or by email) will make a huge difference to their development!

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Growing Pains - April 2010

Posted Tue, 04/13/2010 - 10:17 by growingpains


April 2010 Growing Pains

Thank you to all who contributed to this month's issue. Look for hard copies of them at NW Leather Conference and IMsL.

As always, I am eagerly awaiting your submissions at GPeditor AT soj DOT org.

Your Editrix,
HAVEN WILDE

SF Police Codes and public BDSM

Posted Tue, 04/13/2010 - 10:09 by askjanus

Cuffs behind the back

Could you direct me to a resource that spells out what is and is not permitted in San Francisco regarding public bondage--e.g., what sort of restraints can legally be used on a sub in public outside of bdsm clubs?

Thanks for the question. We asked folks on the team and here's what we came up with.

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I want to be a Pro Domme

Posted Tue, 04/13/2010 - 09:54 by askjanus

Pro Domme boots

I would really like to talk to someone about becoming a professional dom. I know of a few houses that my friends have worked at but dont know how to contact them myself. I am also curious if anyone is interested in teaching me or a work for trade situation. It feels rather lonesome getting into this work without a strong sense of community. I was really happy to find your website.

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Newbie Only Coffee Social * Monday, April 12th

Posted Sat, 04/10/2010 - 15:52 by mentoring

Are you new? We are too!

So you're new to kink and have questions. Everyone does.

* Maybe you've always been curious about the kink/BDSM scene but you'd like some support while you explore.
* Maybe you want to talk to people who have an idea of what you're going through.
* Maybe you just want to meet a few friendly faces before your first kink class or event.

Come to the Newbie Only Coffee Social!

Join us with other new folks on the second Monday evenings of the month.

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Searching for Good Books and Literature on BDSM

Posted Fri, 04/02/2010 - 16:00 by askjanus

I am very very new to BDSM and I am trying to move slowly as I learn more about the lifestyle and myself. I have found a mentor, who is answering many questions and guided me to your site. I want to thank you and all of those out there who understand how scary and lonely this process is and embrace us with your understanding and patience.

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Spring program lineup

Posted Thu, 04/01/2010 - 12:19 by programs

Sun., April 18, 2010 2-5pm
Xplore Series: An Introduction to Bondage with Steve

Tues., April 27, 2010 8-10pm
Poly for Porn Stars with Janice Stine

Tues., May 18, 2010 8-10pm
Pat Me, Slap Me, Pull My Hair with Master Mark

Sun., May 23, 2010 2-5pm
Xplore Series: Psychological Play with Richard Sprott, PhD

All programs will be held at SF Citadel, 1277 Mission Street, SF

Cost: $5 Janus members and reciprocal organizations; $15 all others

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Xplore Series: An Introduction to Bondage with Steve - April 18, 2010

Posted Thu, 04/01/2010 - 12:11 by programs

Sunday, April 18, 2010
2:00pm – 5:00pm (doors open at 1:30pm)
SF Citadel 1277 Mission Street (btwn 8th and 9th)

Note: This class is open to members and non-members. Janus programs are open to all attendees 18 years of age and older who have a personal, positive interest in BDSM.
Cost: $5 Janus members and reciprocal organizations, $15 all others

About our program:

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Upcoming 2010 SOJ Social Activities

Posted Mon, 03/08/2010 - 13:26 by social

We are happy to announce some awesome outings coming up. Please note that most events link to a FetLife posting with additional information. If you have any questions, please email Social at social (at) soj (dot) org.

See you soon!!!

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