Welcome to Janus

SOJ is a not-for-profit, all volunteer, San Francisco-based education and support organization devoted to the art of safe, consensual and non-exploitative BDSM.

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Upcoming programs: Something for everyone

Don't miss any of the great programs Society of Janus will be presenting, starting just after the New Year.


SOJ 2010 Upcoming Programs

So you can save the dates, here's a handy, downloadable pdf that has the dates, programs and presenters.

Full class descriptions and presenter bios can be found on the Janus calendar as the time grows closer.

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Ask Janus: Not quite sure...

I am interested in BDSM, while I don't know a whole lot, I want to know more and my husband is not interested. Is there anyway of easing him into this lifestyle for both of us? I would like to experience certain aspects of BDSM because I feel like am really missing out of a lot of pleasure it could give us both. Is there any thing I can do at home to get him interested? I feel like I need more, and without him even learning and trying anything about this lifestyle, I will miss out of it all together. PLEASE - any help is appreciated.

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Growing Pains - December 2009

Ho, ho, freaking ho!

Here's the e-version of the last GP of 2009. Some fun photos, an article about a virgin submissive and even yoga - all part of our latest.

Hugs to all and a Happy New Year!!!

The Editrix
Haven


December Growing Pains - Happy Ho!

Silent Porn Film Sunday - January 10, 2010, 1:00 pm

When I was growing up, the family scandal was that my grandmother went to see “Deep Throat” at the Flick Twin Theatre. She went there on a date with her boyfriend. I thought it was interesting, before I ever knew how revolutionary that was.

I love the naughty nickelodeons that show the reckless abandon of the early film explorers, and so when I heard of an opportunity to see it on the big screen, I couldn’t think of anyone else I wanted to bring except my pervy pals from the community.

The Good Old Naughty Days (French title: Polissons et galipettes or Rascals and somersaults, is a collection of 12 silent hardcore pornographic shorts from the early 1900s.

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Take Your Erotic Photography to the Next Level with Michael Rosen -Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Want to progress beyond merely recording an erotic or sexual situation? Beyond, "Here's my sweetie in bondage"? We'll discuss ways to differentiate your pictures from the next person's via subject matter, technique and style, using examples from the masters.

8:00pm – 10:00pm (doors open at 7:30pm)
SF Citadel 1277 Mission Street (btwn 8th and 9th)

Note: This class is open to members and non-members
Cost: $5 Janus members and reciprocal organizations, $15 all others

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Growing Pains is looking for cover art for December issue

I'm thinking something that says "holiday" and "kinky," — maybe a submissive tied up like a delicious present... :)

Images should be at least 300dpi.

If you have a contender, please email me at GPeditor AT soj DOT org.

Thank you,

GP Editrix
Haven WIlde

PS - I'm on deadline so your speedy reply is appreciated!

CBT Program November 10, 2009 - notes

The Janus program "CBT with Dr. PeePee and Haven Wilde" was well attended. So much so, that they ran out of handouts. For those who were there and did not get a handout, here is an electronic version of the class notes to accompany the wonderful program. The visuals and incredible demos of CBT and sounds. that the audience was fortunate to experience will only be found with those who attended. Where were you?

Thanks for all of you who came to the program.

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November's podcast - Phil D

This month, We have an interview from 1999 with Phil D, who is well known in the current community as the owner of a public dungeon - SF Citadel.

Enjoy.


Phil D interview

SOJ Presents: CBT with Haven Wilde and Dr. PeePee - Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Time: 8:00 to 10:00pm, Doors open at 7:30pm
Location: The SF Citadel
1277 Mission Street (near 9th)
www.sfcitadel.org

Note: This class is open to Janus members and non-members.
Cost: $5 (Janus members and reciprocal organizations)
$15 (All others)

About our program:

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