Welcome to Janus

SOJ is a not-for-profit, all volunteer, San Francisco-based education and support organization devoted to the art of safe, consensual and non-exploitative BDSM.

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Having a hot and heavy Spring? SoJ Newbie Only Coffee Monday May 14th 7pm


Ready to dance around the May Pole? After all the dance is a fertility rite, the pole….well you can just guess what that symbolizes, and the baskets at the end of white streamers emanating from the tip doesn’t take all that much imagination, does it?

If you think that dancing naked to celebrate human sexuality is just what the doctor ordered, then you just might be interested in many of the other wonderfully human ways to get to know people and get to know yourself. And if the only dancing you are interested in is that done by a luscious bottom at the end of a single tail (or just wonder what a single tail is), perhaps the kink world might offer a way to find out.

How to get started? Come on in to the Society of Janus’ Newbie Only Coffee Social (NOCS). We’re meeting this month on the evening of the second Monday, May 14. (Two weeks after this year’s May Pole dance but it will give you a bunch of time to practice before the next one). We start at 7 PM.

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SoJ Newbie Only Coffee Social - Monday, March 12th, 7pm


If you are new to kink or new to the community, have questions about SoJ, or about kink in general, the Society of Janus hosts a monthly event for you. Our Newbie Only Coffee Social takes place this month on Monday evening, March 12 beginning at 7 PM.

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Newbie-Only Coffee Social

So you're new to kink and have questions. Everyone does.

  • Maybe you've always been curious about the kink/BDSM scene but you'd like some support while you explore.
  • Maybe you want to talk to people who have an idea of what you're going through.
  • Maybe you just want to meet a few friendly faces before your first kink class or event.

Come to the Newbie Only Coffee Social!

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Janus Kinky Movie Night - Wednesday Jan 11, 8pm

"A DANGEROUS METHOD"
Wednesday January 11, 8pm
Kabuki Sunday Cinema
Auditorium 8 (Screening Room)
1881 Post St., SF

A Dangerous Method
Every once in a while a film comes out that's really fun for kinksters. So why not get together with a bunch of folks who will all get the punch lines?

Please come out with other Janus kinksters for a night at the Kabuki Theatre in SF for "A Dangerous Method," which has a whole lot of kinky sex in it. Our kind of movie!

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Janus Orientation - Sunday Jan 8, 4-6pm

Here's one New Year's resolution that you might even enjoy keeping: Putting more kink into your life.

Come to a Janus orientation and learn more about our kinky club and how you can safely explore BDSM and find community. Our next Orientation is Sunday, Jan 8 from 4-6pm.

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Kinky Crafting Social - Dec. 18th, 2-5 pm

We know December can get expensive. So this holiday season, make your own Toys for Tops (and bottoms)! Or just stop by for some friendly fun in a low-key environment.

From 2-5 pm on the afternoon of Sunday, December 18th, the Society of Janus will host a kinky crafts space and social at the Center for Sex and Culture - 1349 Mission Street, San Francisco.

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December 2011 GP. Farewell, my lovelies, for now.

I’ve been “editrix” of Growing Pains and Rapid Release for three rewarding years. The time has flown by!


Ho, ho, download this!

My work for SOJ has given me the opportunity to continually research our wide world of play and make connections in this rich community — and for that, I am filled with gratitude.

It's time to step back for a moment, as I take a step into motherhood. I will give birth to a beautiful baby girl shortly.

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Janus Munch, Saturday Dec 10, 12-2. Ho, ho. ho.

Deck the dungeon with boughs of hemp rope. Come be jolly and revel in the joy of kink this Saturday.

Ho.

Tis the season to give thanks for friends and good times. The munch is a low-pressure social event where you can meet like-minded people and be comfortable asking questions, even if you are totally new. And you don't have to be a Janus member to attend.

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Janus Orientation - Wednesday, Dec 7th, 7-9pm

The holidays are coming and you know what that means:
"Reindeer games!"

Come to a Janus orientation and learn more about our kinky club and maybe how to put a little more fun into that holiday stocking. Our next Orientation is Wednesday, Dec 7 from 7-9pm.

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