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Spring Newbie Social - April 8 -- That's Next Week!

Spring is in the air, the dark Winter has passed and it’s time to expand horizons and cultivate gardens. That applies equally well to cultivating one’s mind and spirit as it does to growing plants. Now’s the time for you to let yourself go to those places you’ve dreamed about only in your most private thoughts. Believe it or not, you are not the first or only person to ever want to explore your kinky side, to have kinky thoughts and desires, to want to pin someone to the wall as you press against her, to make him kneel and caress your thigh.

But how to start?

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Newbie Only Coffee Social -- Observations from the Mentoring Director

Attendance at our August Newbie Only Coffee Social (NOCS) continued our recent trend of a packed house with seventeen attendees in addition to Dr. Anna as Welcoming Director, Charles G, and a cameo appearance by our Program Director, Kester.

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Newbie-Only Coffee Social

So you're new to kink and have questions. Everyone does.

  • Maybe you've always been curious about the kink/BDSM scene but you'd like some support while you explore.
  • Maybe you want to talk to people who have an idea of what you're going through.
  • Maybe you just want to meet a few friendly faces before your first kink class or event.

Come to the Newbie Only Coffee Social!

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October Newbie Munch NEW LOCATION

Alas--Wicked Grounds just closed. And here we are, all ready for the October Newbie Only Coffee Social, all dressed up and nowhere to go. So, with this last minute change of plans, we're going to have to find someplace else to get together.

We're going to meet on Monday evening at Harvest Urban Market. It's at 191 8th Street in San Francisco. That's only a block up 8th from Wicked Grounds, on the corner of 8th and Howard, same side of the street as WG.

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Newbie Only Coffee Social (September 13)

Are you new? We are too!

So you're new to kink and have questions. Everyone does.

Maybe you've always been curious about the kink/BDSM scene but you'd like some support while you explore.
Maybe you want to talk to people who have an idea of what you're going through.
Maybe you just want to meet a few friendly faces before your first kink class or event.
Come to the Newbie Only Coffee Social!

Join us with other new folks on the second Monday evenings of the month.

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Newbie Only Coffee Social - August 9, 2010

Are you new? We are too!

So you're new to kink and have questions. Everyone does.

* Maybe you've always been curious about the kink/BDSM scene but you'd like some support while you explore.
* Maybe you want to talk to people who have an idea of what you're going through.
* Maybe you just want to meet a few friendly faces before your first kink class or event.

Come to the Newbie Only Coffee Social!

Join us with other new folks on the second Monday evenings of the month.

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Newbie-Only Coffee Social * May 10th at 7pm

Are you new? We are too!

So you're new to kink and have questions. Everyone does.

* Maybe you've always been curious about the kink/BDSM scene but you'd like some support while you explore.
* Maybe you want to talk to people who have an idea of what you're going through.
* Maybe you just want to meet a few friendly faces before your first kink class or event.

Come to the Newbie Only Coffee Social!

Join us with other new folks on the second Monday evenings of the month.

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Pervert Eager Minds - Mentoring May 2010

Be a Mentor!
You can support the next generation of kinksters.

The SOJ is looking for Mentors of all genders, orientations, roles and depravities for new Janus Members! Mentors of all experience levels and technical abilities are encouraged to join our dynamic Mentoring Program. You may have only a few years experience or you may be an expert in your chosen field of kink; you can shape the next generation!

* Giving just a little bit of your time to a Newbie kinkster (even over the phone or by email) will make a huge difference to their development!

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Newbie Only Coffee Social * Monday, April 12th

Are you new? We are too!

So you're new to kink and have questions. Everyone does.

* Maybe you've always been curious about the kink/BDSM scene but you'd like some support while you explore.
* Maybe you want to talk to people who have an idea of what you're going through.
* Maybe you just want to meet a few friendly faces before your first kink class or event.

Come to the Newbie Only Coffee Social!

Join us with other new folks on the second Monday evenings of the month.

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