Reciprocal Organizations

The Society of Janus is the second-oldest BDSM organized group in the United States. As a service to our members and in the spirit of being part of a much larger community, we have formed reciprocal agreements with like-minded groups locally and around the nation.

As a member, being a reciprocal member means that you can attend other group's events at members prices and with member privileges. Of course, we are all still bound by group restrictions (e.g. only males can attend a 15 Association play party; only female identifying persons can attend Exiles events).

For many Society of Janus members who travel, reciprocity becomes a friendly calling card to organizations throughout the country and even the world (while we don't have any international reciprocals, we are quite well known around the globe). If you are visiting a city with a reciprocal group, we encourage you to contact them beforehand to find out information about events and current policies.

And in general, when you are in an unfamiliar city, showing your SOJ card to kinky vendors or other SM groups often gets you a discount or member privileges. It's a way of saying "thanks" for supporting your local SM group with membership!



San Jose, CA |

The Exiles

San Francisco, CA |

The 15 Association

San Francisco, CA |


Los Angeles, CA |

The Eulenspiegel Society (TES)

New York City, NY |

Portland Leather Alliance

Portland, OR |

Black Rose

Washington, DC |


Phoenix, AZ |

If you are an officer in a like-minded group in other parts of the U.S. -- or even internationally -- and would like to set up a reciprocity agreement, please reach out to us through our Contact page.